Uh oh according to Gawker The existential riddle of J.Lo's not-sex tapes continues to haunt her: J.Lo ex Ojani Noa has been starting sex tape rumors via legal request—namely, an ever-spiraling series of stipulations and legal injunctions over a "personal" video of J.Lo that Noa wants to sell, that he keeps reiterating is not a sex tape, thereby implanting the notion of a sex tape in our heads in the first place. And now Diddy's getting sucked in: without confirming whether it exists (or mentioning even where the rumor came from) Noa's lawyer requested a Diddy-J.Lo sex tape, to compare and contrast with the not-sex tape, supposedly. If my suspicion that the tape does not exist pans out, then the rumor itself is probably Noa's goal—in which case, success.